predating the - Superficial dating
Most men want sex and most women want a commitment.
That’s not to say men don’t want commitment, they do, it’s just not the driving force behind their behavior, getting a lot of sex is.
I make it a policy not to give my friends relationship advice unless they explicitly ask for it (and a lot of the time they won’t because they know I’ll hit them with the truth and they would rather stay in denial-ville).
Also, my friends sometimes get mad at me for not giving them the answers they want so in order to keep the peace, I will stay mum until things get dire.
You don’t often see a woman plotting ways to sleep with many men and wiggle out of any sort of commitment, or a man trying to figure out how to get a girl to just commit and want only him.